Sunday, April 5, 2009

Discussing China with my roommate

My current roommate in NY is originally Chinese. She's lovely. Entertaining as hell. Recently, she's had her first encounter-shock-clash with a person from Tibet. Although she is too polite to have an all-out argument, she came back home fuming: How he does not consider himself Chinese? I don't have enough background on the matter to make a decision about what is and is not right about that conflict, but I guess I did not offer the support she hoped for, when I acknowledged the fact that Tibetans want their independence. It's an affront to her Chinese pride and nationalism, this quest for independence. We've since had more talks about politics, which she admits, she does not know much about. I've been amazed by how little she knows of her own country's politics, (not that I know more, but then it is China, technically the edge of the world for me), but one thing I found very surprising, for example, was that she had not heard of the 1989 Tien An Men Square incidents (students protests) at home. She had heard of the square of course, seen it as well, but she confessed that she learned about the incidents there from an Englishman. She has not seen the famous video, or pictures of the lone anonymous man who stood facing the tanks. She asked me if I trusted the news about it. I said I did not know the details, but it was evident that there were tanks (and thus army/state action) opposing Chinese citizens. She agreed. She also exhibits slight paranoia, which apparently is shared by her her classmates and compatriots of the same age, about China being perceived as "weak". Weak? I asked, China? She seemed reassured by my incredulity. I told her most people know China's strength. She thought everybody hated China especially the Japanese. Well, they were at war. They musn't like each other much. The media in China is still highly controlled by the government, to this day. As she describes it, the media only display "the good news". I will ask her more about it soon. But I'll leave you with this, the video of the man facing the tanks, the incredibly brave act of resistance/defiance, which shook me to the core, when I was 14.

Tien an men square 4/6/1989 China

4 comments:

Jaleela said...

After all these years, that video still makes my hair stand on end...

deepthiw said...

Wow, that is super interesting. I often wonder what it's like for Chinese students here, when casual mentions of China for its various policies, strengths, and weaknesses are casually dropped all the time.

Oh, and thanks for coming by my blog, it reminded me to drop by yours!

Joumana said...

There's a series of articles about the Tiananmen Square demos, 20 years later, in the NYT (and others) here's a quote:

Today, few young Chinese know anything about what happened at Tiananmen Square, and those who do only say vaguely, “A lot of people in the streets then, that’s what I heard.”

Yu Hua (http://www.nytimes.com/2009/05/31/opinion/31yuhua.html?pagewanted=2)

ُTHALAMUS said...

i was 6 years old when i first saw Israeli Mirkava tanks stopping at our door . they seemed to be so huge .
i look back now and I do clearly understand how a tank can be transformed into a little helpless fly .
power of mind !